Last night, before i laid down to sleep slps trtdo kepenatan pulang dr gym dan bgn semula untuk mandi di tgh mlm (sgt tidak baik utk kesihatan ye cik Zaireen), sempatla bukak buku men from mars and women from venus chapter 2.
Dlm buku tuh kata
MEN ON MARS
~ They are more outdoor.
~ Interested in powerful cars, gadgets & gizmos rather than people and feelings.
~ Achieving goals is very important.
~ Rarely talks about his problems.
WOMEN ON VENUS
~ Venusians defined through their feelings & quality of their relationships.
~ Communication is of primary importance.
~ Relationship oriented; concerned with expressing their goodness, love, and caring.
~ A sign of great love is to offer help and assistance without being asked.
Venusians - Offering help makes her feel loved and cherished.
Martians - Offering help makes him feel incompetent, weak and even unloved.
Two Martians go to lunch ~ to discuss a problem to solve. Efficient way to approach food: no shopping, no cooking, and no washing dishes.
For Venusians, going to lunch ~opportunity to nurture a relationship. Women's restaurant talk can be very open and intimate.
Venusians ~ when something is working it can always work better.
Mars ~ Their instinct is to leave it alone if it is working. "Don't fix it unless it is broken".
Got it??yeah. women & men are different. women more complex but soft. men are simple but tough. Anyway, dlm aku men-justify smua point2 yg ade dlm buku tu. aku tersengih sndiri bile teringat lelaki2 yg 'feeling-feeling' women. lelaki2 complex yg terlalu detail & terperinci, yg terlalu micro-managing. Well, klo perempuan memilih utk kehidupan di Mars tidak mustahil kerana Mars sgt simple. Tp klo Mars memilih utk menjadi Venusian..adakah mereka MUTASI GENETIK??hikhikhik...*peace*
2 comments:
errr. believe me, apa yg ditulis dalam buku itu tak semestinya betul. buktinya, aku baca buku ni sebelum aku kawen - dan selepas aku kawen - aku rasa buku ni adalah tidak relevan kepada semua orang.
like me, aku tak suka suamiku mengekor aku beli barang. aku tak perlukan pendapat, dan aku takmau dengar pendapat. bila ada masalah, aku nak selesaikan sendiri dan aku tak suka dia bagi penyelesaian sebab aku rasa aku pandai, dan otak aku bijak. kahkahkah!
sebaliknya, suamiku suka kalau aku share apa yg aku rasa. suka tanya apa yg berlaku the whole day. suka kalau aku cerita in great details apa yg aku makan masa lunch - which is, aku rasa quite annoying sebab aku letih nak cakap. selalunya aku akan kata -
"nantilah sy cerita. malaslah nak cakap"
suamiku juga suka kalau aku tengok dia main hoki kat stadium, teman dia gi main futsal or as simple as tonton dia training sepak takraw macam bini orang lain buat. sedangkan aku -
"sy rasa lebih baik sy lipat kain. lagipun sy nk tengok desperate housewives"
teruk kan aku? hahaha!
Gituhh!!kelass explaination ko nyah!!
mak mane tau nyah..mak kawin pn x lg..
atau mungkin ko berasal dr planet zuhal atau pluto x??hikhik..
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